Wedding

It is believed that marriages are made in heaven and we just follow it in a proper manner which is known as wedding, a beautiful event, which brings together two souls together.

This is a social event where marriage is celebrated. Some describe wedding as bride's departure from her father's house to husband's house. Two person tie knot with each other to spend their whole life together and share all feelings, up's and downs which comes in life. Marriage can be said a physical as well as emotional bond between two peoples.

Wedding procedure and tradition differs from place to place and various beliefs but then also there are some common attendees performed at the time of wedding and bride and groom's side does these. These are best man, groomsmen, bridesmaids, maid of honor, flower girl, ring bearer, and ushers followed by wedding reception and wedding cake is one of the main dishes in the menu.

After this the new couple dance and cut the cake. The bride then throws the flowers towards assembled unmarried woman. It is belief that whoever catches that flower is the next to marry. Similarly the groom also throws the bride's garter to the unmarried man.

If you are planning to make wedding then certain things which should be planned properly before wedding like:

1. Your wedding is a show as it's a show business. This may sound crass or insensitive but let's get real. Your obligation is to put on a show that impresses the women, period. Plan your wedding specifically for the women planned to be in attendance and give the women a good show then your wedding will be a success, guaranteed.

2. It is an axiom that nothing guarantees success, but a lack of planning will guarantee dismal failure. So plan for every detail and put it neatly and legibly on paper.

3. When planning the date consider:

a. The weather.

b. Whether the most important people have scheduled commitments for that day that they cannot change.

c. Whether some huge event in your town may interfere with traffic patterns around your wedding location or reception.

d. Whether a close by Holiday may make air travel or transportation problematic as far as having people in town on time.

4. If a number of relatives and friends have to fly in, check with some local hotels or motels as far as a group rate for those dates and let people know right away.

5. Get specific contracts with your vendors - bands, DJ, florists, caterers, and bakery - have everything in writing and ask for additional costs that could be charged to you such as traveling, over time, sales tax. Insist on all the details in the contract.

6. When negotiating on a wedding photography package, specify to your photographer that you want a very efficient picture taking schedule. Put into the printed schedule when and where the photo sessions are taking place before and after the ceremony.

7. If you plan to have a friend or relative read a poem or selection during the ceremony please have a rehearsal reading to check for mispronounced words and clarity. And for the love of all, make it short!

8. Understand that this wedding is also the joining of two entire families. If you are different in religion, background, or culture, celebrate each side's uniqueness and emphasize the things in common - love for the bride and groom, for instance.

9. Save yourself money and don't bring your checkbook to the wedding. Let your vendors know that you will mail them the remainder of the balance after the wedding. Having a checkbook handy may set you up for getting "hustled" for extra expenses while you are in a giddy mood.

10. Don't plan to leave on your honeymoon immediately. This invites disappointment and ill feelings since both of you will be extremely exhausted right after the wedding. Wait a few days, open gifts, sleep in late, slow down, and rest before you pack and take off on your honeymoon.

11. To wrap up - use patience, plan, plan, write it down, get the details, divide work into teams, compromise where needed, give months and months to organize you, and enjoy the planning process itself.

If you go by this way then you will be able to make your wedding a memorable one because this is celebration which comes once in a lifetime.